8 Guys Share What They Really Think About Threesomes

Let's get one thing straight: Boys are unique sexual snowflakes just like girls. And though you might think that we all have a Game of Thrones threesome fantasy we're just dying for you to ask us about, some of us are one-woman-at-a-time type of dudes. (Although, don't be afraid to bring it up if that's something you're interested in trying. Let that freak flag fly, girl.)

Then again, some of us are very much into expanding our sexual horizons with the help of a third party. 

Don't just take my word for it though. Check out what other guys had to say about what they really think of threesomes. You might be surprised. 

Probably

1/8 Alyssa Zolna

"I've never had one, but I definitely would. It's kind of like the sexual Holy Grail for me to have sex with two girls at the same time. But two guys and one girl? I'd have to think long and hard about that one. I guess I'd probably do it if I was hard up and needed a win." —Todd S.

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My wife is open to it

2/8 Alyssa Zolna

"You ask me this at an interesting time because my wife and I have just talked about doing one together for the first time. I did one in college and she's had several, so we're both open to it. For me, I'd rather do that than have an open relationship—where she's having sex with someone when I'm not there—not that she said that's what she'd do if I refused to have a threesome. And, you know, she likes girls, so she wants it to be two women and me. I'm looking forward to that a lot more than I would be if it was a different man-to-woman ratio. Now we just have to find the right person for it." —Owen P.

I'd try it

3/8 Alyssa Zolna

"So in theory, I definitely want to have a threesome with two women or a woman and a man. I'd try either one. Obviously, I'm more into two women, but I'll try anything once. I've watched plenty of porn with two dudes and a woman, and it doesn't seem that crazy." —James M.

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I wouldn't last long

4/8 Alyssa Zolna

"I'm over the moon when I have the opportunity to have sex with one person. I'd be down to add in another one. I don't know how long I would last though, so it'd probably be mostly me busting a nut almost immediately, and then the women servicing each other during my refractory period. Hopefully I could tag myself back in at some point. I would not do one with another dude because that just doesn't excite me. I'd probably last a lot longer in that situation though." —Matt D. 

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I've done it before

5/8 Alyssa Zolna

"My friend and I had a threesome with this girl at a high school party. It was fine, but kind of weird. I would have preferred to have done it with a guy I'd never see again, but we laugh about it. Another friend of ours ended up marrying her shortly after we were all out of college and we were both invited to the wedding. The marriage didn't last. Maybe he wasn't down with bringing someone else into the fold. But yeah, I'd do it again." —Rob R.

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That sounds overwhelming

6/8 Alyssa Zolna

"I want to say I'd do a threesome, but I'm kind of overwhelmed just thinking about it as I answer this question. What if I did one with another guy and he was a lot better at sex than me? There's more than enough competition when it comes to getting a woman to want to sleep with you in the first place. I don't need it to extend to the bedroom. I also don't know if I could really pleasure two women at the same time. But I'd do it anyway. Bring it on." —Ian N.

Maybe not with another guy

7/8 Alyssa Zolna

"Of course I would have a threesome. If I was going to do it with another dude, it would have to be with some dude I didn't know and wasn't likely to see ever again. Because it's just not something I would do with a friend. It would have to be a random thing. If it was with two women and me, I'd do that." —Ryan H.

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I worry about what would happen after

8/8 Alyssa Zolna

"I've never really considered having a threesome. If my girlfriend, who I have been with for three years, wanted to have one, and we had a conversation about doing it, I'd be open to it. But to be honest, I really enjoy sex with just her, and if she brought up having a threesome, I'd worry I wasn't doing enough on my own to satisfy her needs. I keep thinking, 'What if we did this, and the other guy was better than me? Where do we go from there?' I don't know if I want to open that can of worms" —A.J. K.

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